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Are
there things about your life you would like to change?
Are you willing to Explore the Possibility
that YOU can change the way you experience
your life?
ABSOLUTE
#1: In The Beginning, we were given the opportunity
to live our lives in joy and peace.
ABSOLUTE
#2: In The Beginning…we were promised that all
of our needs would be met.
In
our busy-ness we have forgotten
these simple ABSOLUTES. We decide that certain
things must happen before we can enjoy what we
are doing. When I retire or when I have these
things has become the standard by which we
measure how successful we are. We often forget
the difference between a need
and a privilege or luxury
and find ourselves with a sense of lack when deprived
of what we consider the bells and whistles
of life. The competition accelerates….we
must have it all by working even harder.
We have forgotten the gift of what was promised
In The Beginning.
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ABSOLUTE
#3: Consider…Humanity aligned (in accordance/in
harmony) with Nature guarantees Evolution.
CHANGE is an ABSOLUTE.
The
World Book Dictionary defines an absolute as...free
from lack, unrestricted, unlimited, unconditional,
not compared with anything else, that which is
capable of being thought or conceived by itself
alone.
In other words...Change is inevitable. It will
occur with or without your assistance. It will
occur with great difficulty when you resist or
with ease when you cease the resistance and embrace
the opportunity. Look at the challenges you are
facing and consider those places you might hold
tightly to the “way it has always been done,”
refusing to consider that circumstances may warrant
a new look at an old model. |
Dr.
Graham Burroughs suggests that our problems could
be reduced to two basic causes...our perception and
how we communicate our feelings to one another.
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What makes our perception of our reality differ
from another’s?
- Could
it be that our life experiences differ and alter
the way we chose the words we use to communicate
those experiences?
- What
is the common thread that joins us one to another...and
how could that be introduced to produce a different
outcome?
Quiet
Miracles addresses individual well-being and
awareness and can be specifically tailored
to meet any need within any environment. We have a
unique opportunity to become pioneers, on the cutting
edge of discovery, rather than just adding another
tool that will soon fade away unused and of little
long-lasting value.
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Is it possible that the solution to our challenges
can be found in a simple experience?
- Are
you willing to let that be your next experience?
In
Critical Path, Buckminster Fuller invites us
to EXPLORE “what the little individual can do
that can’t be done by great nations and great
enterprises.” He suggests that we look at what
needs to be done and just do it, finding joy in the
doing.
The big question remains…”How do you obtain
the money to live with and to acquire the materials
with which to work?” The answer is precession.
Precession is the effect of bodies in motion on other
bodies in motion. When any one of us begins to actively
live our life in the joy and peace of our birthright,
we provide the pathway for others.
Instead, we have used our energy and creativity to
establish an ever-increasing competitive work ethic
leaving many without the minimum requirements to sustain
life. Our current global community sees resolution
to this problem only when everyone believes
exactly as those in charge require. Who, I wonder,
gets to determine the appropriate pathway? Therein
is another challenge…who is really in charge?
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Have we have lost sight of the simple concept of
wanting everyone to have the same advantages that
we desire for ourselves?
- Would
you be willing to EXPLORE what would happen if our
individual efforts were focused elsewhere?
Buckminster
Fuller’s statement: “Precession cannot
be accomplished competitively.” gives a place
to begin our EXPLORATION. Rather than seeking the
common thread that bridges our differences and builds
upon our strengths, we continue to demand that everyone
adhere to a common belief – the only one that
is determined to be right. Since we are not
perfect clones of one another, does this concept really
make any sense?
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Would you be willing to EXPLORE another possibility?
- Is
it possible that our perception of what is
could be distorted?
- Is
it possible that we continue to live in the illusion?
EDUCATION:
Educators and parents have searched for ways
to address the needs of our children and many programs
are now available. It is our task to look honestly
at these programs and ask ourselves if we are getting
the results we seek.
- Is
our school environment less violent?
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Are our children learning at an accelerated rate?
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Is the stress level of our teachers going up or
down?
- How
is that affecting our teachers…our children?
- Whose
truth are we teaching?
J.C.
Pearce in a presentation to the Council for Excellence
Through Self-Esteem and The Joyful Child Symposium
said: “We now know that 95% of the child’s
learning process goes on automatically, through unconscious
imprinting to the models available…on average,
only 5% of the young child’s mind is available
to us for conscious manipulation through verbal training.
All our demands, instructions and orders to modify
the child’s behavior address only 5% of his
learning process. Our unexpressed thoughts and feelings
teach his other 95% - below the level of consciousness.
By age two, our children reflect back to us our hidden
faults: they have imprinted who we really are and
not who we say we are.”
- Are
we a reflection of what we see being modeled by
those around us?
- Take
a close look at the models available to us…what
patterns are we reproducing?
- Is
the 95/5 learning process continued
as adults?
- Would
you be willing to EXPLORE the possibility
that a solution to this problem we face in our education
system might be as simple as looking at how we model
what we believe…or think we believe?
HEALTHCARE:
Healthcare professionals have sought innovative and
practical ways to more completely meet the needs of
their patients. As a broad range of care options are
being requested by patients, many unfamiliar complementary
techniques are being integrated into more traditional
settings.
These changes present
a unique challenge to administrators and staff, often
creating more questions than answers. As we create
this expanded healing environment, our attention must
first be directed to the needs of over-stressed staff
and support personnel. The fastest way to heal
the masses is to heal the healers.
Herbert Benson, chief of the Division of Behavioral
Medicine at Deaconess Hospital in Boston, MA. encourages
blending the traditional models with complimentary/alternative
modalities because…
- it
can save money,
- teach
people new skills in dealing with pain,
- help
them manage their health needs and
- because
it provides a different perspective for health professionals
as they address their own personal needs and those
of their patients.
CORRECTIONAL
FACILITIES: Anytime a population is separated
from their children, families and the outside world,
the management of that population becomes a challenge
to those in charge. Not only is the staff required
to maintain discipline, they are also asked to help
inmates sort through the many emotional problems that
accompany incarceration. This high stress, ever-changing
environment requires special attention.
- How
are we meeting the needs of inmates and staff?
- How
does the staff stress level affect the inmates?
- Could
this be the catalyst for disruption within the facility?
- Are
we providing resources that support the inmate when
they are released?
- What
are we doing that supports a long-lasting change
in behavior?
POLITICAL
SYSTEM: Apathy, lack of interest…even
with our renewed patriotism, these statements still
haunt us. Many still desire to become active participants
in our political system. Many of us are just tired
of the same-old, same-old. Our candidates talk about
change and promise to be the catalyst for it just
as soon as they are elected. They arrive with the
full intent and desire to make the changes they envision.
Their attempts, however, fall upon deaf ears. What
are we missing? I invite you to consider, again, the
quote from Buckminster Fuller: You never
change anything by fighting the existing. To change
something, build a new model and make the existing
obsolete.
- Is
it possible that we are just throwing new ideas
into an obsolete model?
- Does
our approach continue to look like what we have
been doing that we know doesn’t work?
We
spend more money on campaigns, television and media
spots that reflect information out of context and
targeted to the emotional and sensational torture
of an opponent…what’s wrong with this
picture?
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What happened to the premise that anyone could hold
office in this FREE country? That concept has certainly
left the building, just like Elvis!
- How
do we return to the simple concepts of honesty,
fair dealings, truthful disclosure, and trust in
the integrity of those in office as well as those
who put them there?
- Is
anyone willing to really listen to dialogue from
those who actually do the voting?
- Is
anyone willing to turn their back on the big money
and trust the integrity and judgment of those they
will represent?
It
will certainly take extraordinary people to fill these
shoes but I believe that they exist and are ready
to step forth and change the way things are done.
Will
you lead, follow or just ignore the invitation?
CHURCHES/ORGANIZED
RELIGIOUS INSTITUTIONS: In our desire
to make changes in our own lives, in our families,
in our communities and in our global community, we
must begin to look at how we became unglued to begin
with. In a time when life was less distracting, the
church was the center of most communities. Activities
and support systems were in place to help neighbors
in need.
- What
are the models we see within our churches and neighborhoods?
- Do
we sit in judgment because someone doesn’t
subscribe to our way of thinking and believing?
- Are
we quick to share the gossip that we hear about
another?
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Are we modeling a sense of value and fair play to
our children?
- Are
we living what we profess to believe or just giving
lip-service?
In our world today, we are so scattered about in our
day to day activities that we rarely take the time
to know what the other family members are doing or
how they feel about what is happening in their lives.
A recent landmark study at UCLA provides insight into
the significant role modeled by women. The study shows
that women respond to stress by releasing a hormone
called oxytocin, which encourages “tending and
gathering.” These actions release even more
oxytocin providing a calming effect. This does not
occur in men. Science now supports what we have known…it
is the woman’s role to create Calm Within
The Chaos. “Let it begin with me”
becomes the foundation from which we begin the rebuilding.
- Would
you be willing to EXPLORE the possibility that we
can reweave the tattered fabric of our religious
institutions by returning to the simple values of
truth, compassion and tolerance for our unique differences?
- Are
you willing to stand tall for your beliefs and support
another’s privilege to do the same?
- Can
you embrace our diversity knowing it is our greatest
strength – the very foundation upon which
our country was founded?
- Are
you willing to EXPLORE the possibility that we would
be better stewards of our planet, ourselves and
our neighbors if we were committed to the simplicity
of unconditional love and fair treatment?
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Would we better serve our faith by extending an
invitation to anyone searching for a place of refuge,
hope and community by opening our church doors and
our hearts?
Before you begin to defend your particular church
or denomination, would you be willing to look honestly
at the bigger picture? All is not well.
Yes, the seeds of hope are sprouting and honest DIALOGUE
will support their growth.
Once again, will you seize the opportunity
or ignore the invitation?
We are entrained to a global environment that is turning
up the stress volume. According to
studies conducted at such notable institutions as
Harvard, HearthMath and the Menninger Clinic, stress
affects our well being on all levels…physical,
mental, emotional and spiritual. In an article from
USA Today (May 1991) stress
has become a workplace hazard. The
article further states 75 to 90 percent of all visits
to primary care physicians result from stress
related disorders. The American Institute of Stress
and the American Psychological Association agree,
Employee turnover, unscheduled absenteeism
and waning morale all affect the bottom line.
The Institute of HeartMath defines stress
as the body and mind’s response
to any pressure that disrupts their normal balance.
It occurs when our perceptions of events don’t
meet our expectations and we don’t manage our
reaction to the disappointment.
Dr. Graham Burroughs,
President of the International Society for Investigation
of Stress, after years of reviewing the research on
stress found that the problem could
be reduced to two basic causes: problems
in perception and problems
in communication.
- Could
it be that the solution to the problems within our
work force could be solved as easily as integrating
the simple concepts of Quiet Miracles which
address these very issues?
- Could
this cost effective measure be a model to bring
pride back into our workplace and a sense that our
efforts are being appreciated?
- How
would that affect your bottom line? Would
you be willing to EXPLORE the possibilities? Quiet
Miracles begins with YOU and encourages an EXPLORATION
of ALL the options that are available for your use.
Quiet Miracles begins with YOU and encourages an EXPLORATION
of ALL the options that are available for your use.
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